Nice guys go home alone. Being the bad boy who exudes confidence and success with topless dancers is just a matter of time.
Don’t be fooled by people who tell you to use gimmicks or pick up lines. Don’t listen to people tell you to follow dancers out to their cars. That will get you hurt! (I know several cases of guys who were sprayed with pepper spray, beaten up or even zapped with a stun gun for it.)
You have to make yourself stand out from the crowd clearly if you want to pick up women in this industry. You can do this by making sure she associates you with things she doesn’t expect from a customer. We aren’t talking puppets or candy here. (Yes, some tell you to try this… several of my dancer friends have told me about”freaks”who actually did!) The things that will make you stand out most are more subtle. See, most guys go into these clubs with the bachelor party attitude. They are loud, obnoxious and downright disgusting.
You can be different by being laid back, polite, charming. Now don’t take this the wrong way, I’m not going to suggest you act prim and proper, that won’t get you to your goal either. Just don’t come off like you just got out of prison and your last lover had more hair on his chest than you!
A lot of men try being the”nice”guy. Don’t make this fatal mistake. “Nice”guys go home alone. They are too boring to keep women interested. What you want to be is the bad boy that exudes confidence. Don’t be arrogant, don’t be a doormat… find the line in the middle.
I’ve heard a lot of guys say they can’t score with a topless dancer because they aren’t rich enough or good-looking enough. I tell you this is a load of bull! I’ve known guys who you would never believe could get a date with anyone who happened to date some of the most attractive women in the topless bars I frequented. To give you an idea, one of the guys (who was a good friend of mine) had the nickname”Ratboy”.